Friendzoned or nah

I hate this whole idea of being "friendzoned" because it's literally not a real thing. Everyone has a right to be with someone they want to be with, and no one is entitled to anyone. A lot of guys (some girls may think it too, idk) have this mindset that when a girl is just friends with a boy, he's friendzoned aka not gonna get any from her. Like just because he was nice to her, or maybe bought her dinner one time, he deserves to be with her. Don't get mad that she doesn't want to suck your dick, someone else will. Get over it.

If you want to date someone, make an effort to be with them. And if they still don't feel the same way, you can't get mad. They still deserve respect. This goes for girls too. Everyone gets so offended if someone doesn't like them. The way someone perceives you isn't how you actually are, it's who you are to them. For example, if someone calls you a bitch, it doesn't mean you're a bitch, it means they think you are a bitch. Therefore, if someone doesn't like you, it usually doesn't have to do with you, so there's no need to be upset about it.

Also "nice guys finish last" makes me so mad as well, because they don't. Just because you are nice, doesn't mean she'll automatically want you, and she doesn't have to. It's not a privilege for guys to be nice to girls, the way some tend to think. Some guys act like by being nice to a girl, they have a right to get with her or be with her, which is not true at all. Nice guys don't finish last because all guys should be nice. If all douche bags stop being douche bags, and all "nice guys" stop complaining, everyone would probably be able to be with who they want.